Submitted by: Lessandra
"Why would my boyfriend be bothered that I hang out with my male friends if he really trusts me? He is really agitated when I do and I can tell even though he tries to hide it."
Yes, he is probably is really bothered. It is not that he does not trust you but he is bothered because he knows that if it is not one his friends, because whether you want to admit it or not, most likely a few if not all of your male friends are crushing on you (especially if you are 1/2 a looker). We guys know that consistent hangout time with us guys, without the boyfriend, is an affair just waiting for us to make happen (even if you don't know it yet).
He is also bothered that you'd want to spend hang out time with other males that is not him. We guys know that those guys probably will have less respect for him, since they have hang out access with his girl. and thats not a very good place for a man to be when in the manworld. In other words in our world that kinda places him a slot lower on the totem pole. So he IS probably very agitated 1) at your naivety, that you don't get it, that 2) you put him in that place consistently, and that 3) you are bothered because he is bothered (he knows you are agitated at his agitation).
I suggest that you think very carefully and decide if you care more about your relationship with your guy vs your relationship with your male friends. This is an easy fix if you want a real and long lasting relationship with your man.
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